Saturday, November 10, 2007

Cover Me

This morning I was playing with the little chick - we were playing catch with a balloon. She came over and bonked me on the head with it, so I tumbled over onto the floor. She started giggling and came over and jumped on me, giving me a big hug. "Oooohhhh" she said in a voice that I can't hope to capture in writing, "Daddy-daughter day!" (that's what we call it) and just snuggled right in.

After a minute, she got back to her feet and looked a little concerned... then walked over to her little pink chair where Mrs Cow (who is almost the same size as she is) lives. She pulled her out of the chair and brought her over to me; lifting my head, she pushed Mrs Cow underneath. "Daddy needs pillow," she explained. I'm not sure how it was for Mrs Cow, but it was a whole lot more comfy for me.

Then she realized something was still missing - she ran off to where all her supplies are for her baby, and came back with a blanket... a blanket that is more symbolic than functional, even for her baby: it's about one foot square. "For Daddy's feet," she said. She stood by my feet and considered. Then, straddling my legs, she decided against the feet and waddled up until she was at my belly, and spread the blanket out over me. "Now," she said, sitting herself in her pink chair next to me, where she could keep an eye on my condition, "close eyes and go to sleep."

Well, the sleep only lasted about 15 seconds before it was time to play again, but it was wonderful to see her learning to stop and get outside of herself, to think about what I (or anyone) might need, and to want to care for those needs. That's the kind of little chick I want to raise.

I'm a pretty happy guy.

6 comments:

Anonymous said...

Cool... What more can a Grandma say, other than that I wish I could share in those delights more frequently. She is an amazing little girl. You are an amazing Daddy. I'm a pretty happy woman!

Unknown said...

hey darryl,

Oh, YEAH, this is really sweet. Very grinworthy. And you know, I wonder if in some ways these sorts of moments offer us a picture of how God feels and reacts when we step outside ourselves to love and care for other folks. When we think about children, its not that their love is highly efficient or effective (although Miss Cow as pillow, now that's some ingenuity), nor are their actions perfectly executed, but what's beautiful is the intention behind their actions, and the way they reflect, if only for a moment, complete other centeredness. The more I watch little guys and their parents, the more I am convinced that God delights in the heart behind things, more so than the manner in which we do things. And I would hazard a guess that women, being the sensitive creatures they are, have picked up on this.... hence the intention = 10pts, execution = 5 pts. system.
Grin. Thanks for this,

Robyn

none said...

Wise little creature, she is. All any of us really have is a teeny little blanket. But with a full and generous heart - with love - it's more than enough.

Or so it seems to me.

Anonymous said...

Keeeeeeee-yewt. Love that Baby Doll. Thanks for letting us share the moment... :)

Darryl said...

Yeah, she's wonderful. And she certainly garnered a full 10 points for the intention on that one.

Darryl said...

Oh, and welcome, Robyn; nice to see you here.